Couple's Corner-First year of being married...


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Okey let me think of our first year of being married. First off, it was different like I have said I've been single  for 38 years and being single that long I became very independent, very opinionated, I own my time, very systematic, everything is always planned "my way"  lol,   and so sometimes I forgot that in some decision we both have to agree hehe. But hubby is very loving person he never cut me down or (even until now) say negative words at me. That is why it was not hard for me to adjust the married life he is with me all the way and give me the understanding and patience that any man could offer to a "spoiled bratty" wife lol!!

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Mommy Liz said…
Tama ka dyan Manang Kim, for 38 years of your single life, di ba ang hirap ng bigla eh may kasama na tayo sa buhay. But, I think the adjustment depends on your partner di ba? Compromise lang naman ang kailangan natin eh. And kung loves tayo ng ating mga hubbies, and vice versa, loves natin sila, di naman mahirap harapin ang married life. Basta pag usapan ng maayos..

Thanks for joining this week.
November 17, 2009 at 6:52 PM
eds said…
You're very lucky to have such a wonderful husband.. kami kaya ni habibi tatagal gaya ng mga marriage nio? sana nman ::)

check mine here >> http://mydigihome.info/?p=247
November 17, 2009 at 7:57 PM
Chris said…
you are blessed :D
November 17, 2009 at 11:44 PM
teJan said…
heheh... it worth the waiting:)

happy CC!
November 18, 2009 at 1:58 AM
anne said…
hehehe spoiled bratty I can relate with that. lol mine is up I hope you can visit mine too. http://www.terryannemary.com/2009/11/couples-corner-first-year-of-being.html thanks
November 18, 2009 at 6:48 AM
darly said…
lucky you, you have a very loving hubby :)

My CC is up too, check it out.

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November 18, 2009 at 11:42 AM
Unknown said…
Buti pa pala hubster mo manang khim napaka understanding. pinagbigyan all the time his spoiled bratty wife hehehe. Well, you have the rights to spoiled and be bratty kasi ang tagal nya dumating, umabot pa tuloy ng 38 years hehe. Your marriage are blessed, you found each other at the point of your life na mature na kayong dalawa. kaya siguro you understand and get along each other.
November 18, 2009 at 1:54 PM
Kero said…
masarap talaga pag understanding at hindi demanding ang hubby noh?

i can imagine the adjustment you made. career woman used to being alone and getting her own way tapos biglang you also have to consider your significant other's opinion. di ba mahirap sa una? hehe

salamat po sa visit and for the wisdom :)

till next MM!
November 18, 2009 at 2:04 PM
LODS said…
For me one of the secret of a long marriage is to avoid saying hurtful words to your partners coz once those word come out of your mouth the damage is done. I love reading other married couples entry,lol
November 18, 2009 at 3:05 PM
Cecile said…
Oo nga ka swete nimo uy; lisod lagi mag adjust, but with a hubby like yours, it makes it easier...spoiled diay ka, Khim :-)!
November 18, 2009 at 5:57 PM
Chie Wilks said…
hehhe spoiled brat wife..., we just can't help to be a spoiled wife because they are spoiling..

thanks for visiting mine
November 18, 2009 at 7:11 PM
Seiko said…
You're Blessed for havin' such an understanding husband,I can feel how happy your marriage is,worth it ang 38 years na paghihintay for the right guy to come up your way:D
November 19, 2009 at 11:31 PM
sheng said…
u're blessed to have him Manang Kim...

i've added u po pala sa bloglist ko...
November 21, 2009 at 12:11 AM
L. Neusiedler said…
if the two love each other and understand each other, marriage is fun!
November 23, 2009 at 1:03 PM
Anonymous said…
Sounds like you married a keeper!
November 24, 2009 at 6:54 PM
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