I missed my niece...

It's Saturday night here in Michigan and while I am playing games here in Facebook and feeling of missing my niece who is 21 years old struck me. Yes she is in her right age and she didn't finished her nursing course (she is already in her 3rd  year) she said that she like Criminology better. But she didn't told me that on my face  rather she started to get rebellious and I didn't know that until she didn't start to attend school last semester. Me and my brother was in panic trying to figure out what was wrong or where do we go wrong so we found out what it was she doesn't want to continue her nursing. Because of that I told my brother to tell her that we are going to sent her to her father in Baguio city and she said she wanted to look for a job. While she was in her father's town she get bored after awhile so she told me she is going to Cebu to find work because in Baguio there is nothing that she can do there.
Now she is in Baguio and is in training for a call center job. I told her that it's not her lifetime job because she has to finished her Criminology if that is what she like to do and she pretty much agree to it and I feel that she is happy that we agree to what she likes in her chosen career. Anyway, now I missed her, she is already 21 years old and what can I only do to her is to guide her and trust that what me and my brother thought her stuck in her mind. I trust God that we are on the right track disciplining her and if something happened it's her choice and not us. I only wonder how much we parents could shield them from the reality of life. But on the other hand I also thought that they also have to learned that life out there is not pretty easy. I've been there and everybody been there and there is always trials, pain, ups and down, and to come out with those things in life is what I call successful. I do pray a lot for all my nieces and nephew because like my niece now sooner or later they will go to the world to face reality and they have to face it with our guidance, our prayers, our moral advice to them and of course we always tell them that what ever happen we are always their support, welcome them, and love them no matter what. 

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Ann said…
I wanted to send you an email, but thought your readers might benefit too from your comment about drowning of your friend's son. 3 years is still very fresh and raw in your friend's mind.

Please tell her, I care.

http://annkitsuetchin.blogspot.com/


How heart wrenching is your friend's journey. Though I wrote about my son's death as a baby, I also understand a mom who lost a child. Perhaps your friend would like part of my book at the above blog about my journey.

You are a great friend.

In New Zealand, we have the ACC, accident compensation corporation, a govt agency. They pay out to any accident. Nobody sues any body. Even if foreigners who come to visit.
Ann said…
Re: your niece, young people change their minds very quickly. My daughter changed her mind at 26.
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