Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Couple's Corner: Jealousy


Rodliz’s Nest


So it's another couple's corner meme once again and this time it is all about jealousy. I am thinking of the 8 years that I have known my hubby (2 years of chatting, 1 year engaged, 5 years of marriage) wala namang grabeng nangyari sa amin in terms of jealousy but ONCE and will tell the story later so hang on hehe. I am the kind of person who trust a person without any doubt, even with friends what you see is what you get but if you broke that trust I would never care nor look at you as in talagang wala na. But in marriage pala we can't just say "that's it" or "this is it", we have to listen to one another and trust again and  again and again. I look as jealousy or selos as like a flame  that keeps the fire from BURNING HOT!! bwehehehe!! -wink-wink-
Hubby is not a jealous type nor I (well not much). His ex-wife is still living and I never get jealous because I am much 1000% prettier and younger than her bwahahaha!! Kidding aside hubby don't have anything to  do with her so instead I am the one teasing him about her about their past -wink-. Hubby will just roll his eyes and deadma to the max ang drama.
But last 2007, after I came back from my month long Pinas vacation, my luggage was not yet unpacked and I am suffering from jet lag and all, I happened to opened his computer and just out of no where I checked on his yahoo messenger. I don't know but I look at the message archive and here it is....he is chatting to his friends ex-filipina gf, I was fuming mad like a bull ready to  attacked!! And when you are angry every single word that is being written you put a meaning to it...so I started trembling and my head is aching..I managed to print the chat log. My heart was beating so fast I know for sure no words could EVER appease me! Hubby came and I interrogate him about what is happening. So he told me about this and that but I was super mad, ang aking ilong at tenga eh umusok na, pangil ko lumabas na lahat nang kaspa (dandruff) ko eh nagkalaglagan na, nothing that he said is worth listening. So I started to cry, I was raging mad and I was so jealous everything that come my way crashes, I picked one of our dining chair and throw it, it got broke of course. Our house was tupsy-turvy I was yelling and shouting and so I decided to leave. Hubby beg me not to leave but I wanted to...remember my unpacked luggages? So I picked it all and the remaining things that I have I put it in another luggages and I told him I wanted to rent  an apartment. He was crying this time, he knew that no matter what he do my decision will prevail. So I put all the luggages in the car, and he said that he won't allow me to  live in an apartment, but he only sees a Kim who is fuming mad, pangil ko lumabas at yung mata ko bumuga nang apoy!! I said if you are not going to drive me to an apartment I am going to burned this house!!
He drove me around town looking for an apartment but since we couldn't find one I ended up in a hotel. There he beg me again to come home...but I told him to just chat his friends ex-gf that way he is going to be happy forever!! I see his eyes blood shot I knew he is crying I was crying like crazy. I was in the hotel still crying and I was looking out the window my husband  is in the parking lot looking up bwhehehe wawa naman lol!! For one night and  one day what I did is cry and cry. My SIL called me the next day and I told her about what happened. Over the phone she prayed over me...thank God....for that because my mind was clouded with jealousy I couldn't think right.
Then I heard a knock on the door when I opened it, it was my hubby I felt I missed him so much...then I remember I am very hungry so I decided to go back home hehe. After what happened we talked, he said his piece I said  mine....there are still some relapses after that event but now I don't care anymore and I know my hubby more than ever. And he knew me too kung gaano pala ako kung galit na galit all break lose ika nga.
So there I shared my story....thanks for dropping by. Happy weekend!

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24 comments:

Mom of Four said...

Manang Kim, kala ko sa bibig lumalabas ang apoy, kahit pala sa mata pwede rin?? Wow! sobrang selos yan ah, as in talagang super mad. Bakit kaya iba kapag nagselos, nakaka wala ng bait, nakakagalit, nakakabilis ng paghinga, pareho tayo, ganyan din ako eh, hingal kabayo ako kapag galit, naninikip ang aking dibdib. But you are right, iba pala kapag asawa natin, di pwedeng isang pagkakamali lang eh di na tatanggapin pabalik, we can always give them another chance, forgive and forget di ba?

Ang tapang mo pala, ipinakita mo sa hubby mo na lalayasan mo talaga siya ha, I don't blame you for feelign that way, kasi habang nasa Pinas ka pala at namimiss siya eh nakikipag chat naman sa ibang gurl. But, I am so glad that you made amends, lahat naman ng bagay eh napag uusapan di ba?

thanks for joining..

Manang Kim said...

Hahaha mommy Liz, napatawa nalang talaga ako sa experienced na yun, wawa din siya kasi di din daw siya nakatulog sa kakaisip sa akin oh diba dyosa din ako hahaha!! I am thankful lang kasi one time lang siya naki-pag chat doon sa gurl. Kung basahin din naman ang kanilang chat log, the girl is sad about her break up with my hubbies friend. Hubby is telling her she could find another man...but who cares for me nobody should chat my husband hahaha possessive ba na naman ako lol!!
Umuwi ako sa bahay mommy Liz dahil nagutom ako hahaha...naisip ko bakit ba ako nagpakagutom at mugtong mugto ang mata ko eh ang beauty!!
Yup in the end talagang asawa eh asawa, it doesn't mean na konting away wala na....hiwalay na di dapat ganyan lahat paguusapan at may solution -wink-

Rossel said...

naku ate Kim, nakakatakot ka palang magalit, para kang dragon, pati sa mata e lumalabas ang apoy. ang maganda lang doon e nawala siguro dandruff mo dahil naglaglagan lahat. lol!

at least you hubby learned his lessons. hindi sya pwedeng makipag-chat sa ibang gurl ever. kung hindi e lalayasan mo sya.

ako rin, i've learned my lessons. ang katwiran ko kase before e as long as wala akong ginagawang masama so ok lang makipag-chat. pero mali pala, kahit sabihin pang kaibigan lang ang kachat mo at wala kang ginagawang masama e iba na pala kapag may asawa ka.

happy cc!

Manang Kim said...

Hello mommy ross, like you yan din ang katwiran nang hubby, alam ko there is nothing to it pero sa amin who is looking from outside iba ang dating...eh ako may pagka-possessive alam nang hubby yan...sabi ko sa kanya pag I will share you to somebody else that means no love na ako sa iyo...pero for now AKIN KA LANG oh diba parang title nang pelikula hehe.

eds said...

Jusmio marimar.. nakakatakot ka pala magalit.. buti hindi naihi sa takot si hubby mo. grabe na ito.. parang isang kabanata sa teleserye ang naimagine ko sa story mo.. buti na lang prayover pala ang makakapagpabalik sa dating Kim hehe.. ano ba yan.. panigurado ayaw na ulit mangyari ni habibi mo yan.. baka kasi sa susunod sunugin mo na talaga un bahay hehe..

heres mine >> http://mydigihome.info/?p=295

Clarissa said...

Grabe ka pala talagang magalit,Ate Kim!!Layasan blues pa at sunugan pa ng bahay talaga lol!!OO nga pala hagisan pa ng upuan lol!!Buti na lang nakaiwas cya heheheee!!At least naka-experience na cya kung paano magalit si Ate Kim!!kakaloka ka talaga!!\(^0^)/

sheng said...

Grabeh! Manang Kim nman nakakatakot ka... as in right away umalis ka...

alam mo habang binabasa ko entry mo naiimagine ko kung anong itsura habang galit ka at nagngingitngit....at parang ako rin pala ikaw ung tipong lilipad ang puedeng lumipad or masisira at puedeng masira dahil sa galit...hehehe

lina@happy family said...

Wow, thank God, you and your hubby can solve this problem...
Thanks for sharing your story!

Genejosh said...

parang I've seen the scene sa pelikula ni Maricel Soriano...kawawa naman si hubby mo napaiyak mo pa and I understand how you feel but medyo introvert kasi ako kaya di ako masyadong showy sa emotion ko..thanks for sharing that story. Thanks God, you have kept your marriage intact...God bless you more

Mine's here: http://www.hyzyd.info/2009/12/couples-corner-feeling-called-jealousy.html

BTW sis could you help me win sa Artscow photo contest? Here’s the details: http://www.genejostory.com/2009/12/help-me-win-at-artscows-photo-contest.html

Thanks talaga.

♡ N o r e e n said...

Hahahha enjoy story mo sis especially about the part na mas maganda ka at bata sa ex-wife ng hubby mo hehehehhee

Seiko said...

I did really enjoyed reading your story Mommy Kim.Sobrang galit pati dandruff nagkalaglagan na ahaha!!Nakakatakot ka palang magalit Mommy naibabato pati silya talagang huramentado ang labas kaya hindi na pansin ang poise mo.Selosa din ako Mommy kaya lang nasa nature ko na yata ang always in low profile hinga ng malalim then talk ang hirap kasing magpadala ba sa emotion hindi makapagisip ng matino ba hehe but I totally agree w/ you Mommy pag mag asawa na hindi pwede yung basta basta na "Well that's it & this is it".Kawawa naman si hubby mo napaiyak na rin gaya mo but I'm glad you did patched up things the soonest.I love reading your story Mommy as in nag enjoy talaga ako.
Hope to see you next time again here in CC,late lang talaga ako mag comment & mag blog hopping hope you don't mind very busy lang talaga din but I can't help myself from blogging as if 'm enjoying it.
God Bless!:D

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